Do you regret your marriage, and why?

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Do you regret your marriage, and why?

I'm sorry for my divorce.
I have 31 women Delhi.

I married my boyfriend of 6 years. Then I was 27, when I told my mother about my boyfriend, that time they only raised too many less basic problems that they could have another person in mind. 



But everyone agreed after meeting my boyfriend (he is a true gentleman and very humble). Still, my mother told me that I could get you a better boy with much more net worth. I told him that I am not doing business and that I am really compatible with this.

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My dad was with me on this, but mom half agreed. We got married in October 2014. I had a great time with him. I would literally take care of myself as a small baby. He never leaves home without hugging me.

But time has different plans. Once we have a verbal discussion because I did not want to attend my family's role. He said my mother still hates him and always says something difficult to digest. I said it's just your wrong thought.



I attended that function alone. My mother told me that she is her husband, she doesn't even know so much that the husband and the wife come together for a function. 

I ignored him that time, but I know that my mother was true, so after arriving home I spoke or, rather, I cried in front of my mother so that he (my husband, ex now) did not come with me anywhere. 

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And also fight with me if I ask him to come with me. My mother said that I told you not to marry him and many things she said or rather inflame me against my own husband. She said she just starts showing her true colors after a while.

Then, after every little fight I have with my husband, I will call my mom and she will provoke me more against him. I don't know when I started to behave according to my mother's instructions in my marriage. This has become a routine. 



After I return home, I will say something bitter and, if he ignores it and behaves normally, I will continue to make fun of him until he reacts and then I will fight him for some useless things my mother talked to me about and will call again. 

My mom at night to tell me what my husband called me today. She will make a mountain with a hill and it has become a loop.

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One day after such a fight I left home and went to see my mother. Now I was under the direct influence of my mother and my mother was never in favor of my marriage.

 Now, when my husband calls, I will give the phone to my mother or I will not attend. They spent 2 months as wise. My mother told me that she will come rubbing her nose on the step of the door to take you. But he never came.

He then filed for divorce and we received a notice from the court and a letter from his lawyer. I remember I was crying while reading it.



 My mother still told me that you never deserve it and that you will not talk to him, he will communicate with him only through a lawyer. 

She has tried to threaten him with dowry laws and abuse him what is not. This has killed even the small hope I have that my marriage will prevail.

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In these 3 to 4 months, when I was alone, I realized what I had done and tried to communicate with him, but it was too late. I arrived at his house that used to be mine also some time ago (such good memories in his). 

He refused to speak and said that I felt insecure that you could now hurt yourself and blame me for domestic violence, that is the only thing that has not blamed me in this divorce process.

I could not do anything and come back. After that incident, I realized that my marriage is already dead. Then, I accepted the divorce in court and the procedure is shortened a bit.



My mother wants me to marry again, so keep bringing new proposals, but nothing seems good enough to me. Whoever brings has money, but has no brains or manners (everyone owns or sits in ancestral properties).

Last week I wrote an email to my ex-husband writing all this, he said he knew it was my mother's line of thinking, but there was no communication or trust between us, so I could have convinced him.

 He also said that you gave someone else among us through your mother, but it was not acceptable for him to go to another person to solve our problems. He wishes me the best for the future.

I don't know how I'm going to deal with the loss, I started hating my mother and myself for my divorce. I don't think I ever have someone.

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